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Wednesday, 9 October 2013

Are You a Reactive, Proactive or Responsive Person? Know Yourself & the Baby Steps to become a Responsive Human Being


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Our life is made up of our response or reactions to the situations & people around us. There are Reactive, Responsive & Proactive people. The Responsive ones are the ones who move on to become Proactive too, But a Proactive person will not be Responsive one. 
It is this Response or Reaction, that adds to our Karma of brownie points or minus points. Below are a few important aspects of each kind. See where you fit in, know yourself better through this wonderful blog (To experience a total Break-True sign up for our powerful mentoring packages) & move towards the Baby Steps mentioned herein, (which we teach you step by step in the sessions, on how to achieve them) to become a Responsive person who manifests the Highest Good in all aspects of life & embraces all challenges with Positive Surrender considering them as stepping stones.

A Reactive Person is the one who's like Soda fizz. They act & do things on the impulse of that moment. They can be like a can of fizz pop drink, where if Life shakes them, the pressure builds up & they explode like volcanic lava. They are constantly caught up in comparisons, envy, victimhood, self sympathy & inferiority complexes which give rise to irritation, insecurity, frustration & feelings of not being good enough for anything. They get easily offended, be revengeful at times in thoughts or actions & store hurts, resentment, unforgiveness, guilt, blame etc., Often unreasonably stubborn & rigid in their outlook.

A Proactive person has few of traits of a Responsive person like, they think before they act. They bounce back when something bad happens (though they will curse the whole world for it). They try to find a way to make things happen hook or by crook (even if it disrupts or hurts someone). They try to focus on planning & doing something about things they have in hand or plan to have (but with personal motives & agenda). They often do things without being told to do them which can be good or seemingly bad at times. They have high superiority complex or ego that may hurt others, many a times.

A Responsive person has many common things as a Proactive person minus the negatives. They do not blame anyone when things go bad & bounce back with Positive Surrender. They do not get easily offended. They take complete responsibility of their choices & thus their manifestations. They always find a way to make things happen without disrupting or hurting others. They do not try to control situations or people. They do not worry or have fears of the Past & fears of the Future. They learn from their past & move ahead with forgiveness & love; And completely believe & live in the Now, with Gratitude & Positive surrender to make the most of what is given to them right here & now. They do everything with detachment from all Doership & selflessly. They do not hold ego or separateness from other beings. They consider themselves to be One in Consciousness with everyone & everything around. 

The Baby Steps that you can take to move towards being a Responsive Person are:
  • Daily release your day with the Angels when you pray at night & ask them to take away all irritations, hurts, fears & such negative energies or thoughts or feelings away to the Light. (You don't need extra luggage or you'd be charged in the Universe too)
  • Be in awareness daily on how many negative things you say or think like, fearing, worrying, jealousy, anxiety, judgements, etc.
  • Be in awareness how many times you give the power of your happiness & peace to other people or situations by using the terms; "You make me feel this & that; I have to only do it because....; Why can't he she or they do this or that for me, or why They did this or that to me; Because xyz situation happened i became like this in life" etc. Now cut all such sentences away & know that blame will not take you anywhere. Blame, Worry, Guilt is like being on a Treadmill, which may show you 12kms on the indicator, but you've been running on the same spot. It will keep you right there in it's clutches never to let you go.
  • Leave your comfort zone & do something that you truly wish to do.
  • Start to understand that if God is in everyone & everything, HE is in the seeming bad people & the seeming good people in your Life. Stop compartmentalizing people. Forgive, Learn & Move Ahead.
  • Not just learn but embrace your life lessons & move ahead with forgiveness & love in your heart.
  • Stop judging yourself or others, or be an over perfectionist being harsh on yourself or others. Bring in a lot of self love & compassion. When you do that you will realize that just like yourself, others too have been operating out of their healed or unhealed energies. Forgiveness will become more natural by then.
  • Be in awareness of your patterns that don't serve your Highest Good.
  • Start looking at other people's view point with a subjective thought process. Disagree without being disagreeable.
  • Respect everyone & everything around you, including yourself. Learn the Power of No.
  • Daily give Gratitude for all that you had, all that you have & all that you will have.
  • Feel the Oneness with everyone & everything around you, people, animals, creatures & even inanimate objects as they too are a Soul going through their evolutionary process.
  • Do a daily deed of kindness, or say words that bring a smile to someone.
  • Do what you want to do not what you have to or just need to do.
  • Do all good, with a sense of detachment, whereby you know there is a Higher Power operating through you to do all the good.
  • When there is no Doership, there is no Ego or Expectations.
  • Next time you feel your teacher, friend or anyone has been unfair, don't blow your lid or cry & sulk. Talk it out with the person & see what you need to learn out of this episode.
  • When you have a fight, be strong enough to forgive & humble enough to apologize.
  • Start operating in life with your Heart held High; and your Head held in Humility.
When you truly start practicing these Baby Steps, you will soon see the Shift within, which will make you start Responding to Life rather than Reactive to Life.
  © Roshani/Oct2013 
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